23. She Pleaded With Her Bandmate
Cass had always used her weight as an excuse not to feud with other women for men’s attention. However, Phillips had betrayed their already strained friendship by taking up with Doherty. The betrayal left her crestfallen. “You can have any man in the world," Cass painfully lamented to Phillips, “Why take the one man I love?”
In her sorry desperation, she did the unthinkable.
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24. She Proposed To Her Bandmate
Even after Doherty had told Cass about the affair, she still held out hope that one day he might grow to love her. Decades later, Doherty revealed that Cass had proposed to him one night but that he hadn’t answered her because he had been too “stoned”. It doesn’t sound like Cass spent too much time licking her wounds, though.
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25. She Had Tons Of Boyfriends
Even if Cass couldn’t win over Doherty, she didn’t exactly have a shortage of lovers. In fact, her comments on the matter suggest that she had guys lining up around the block. “It’s easy to find boyfriends,” she explained, “I buy them a motorcycle, a leather suit, and put them in acting school”. Another theory suggests that they wanted something else from her.
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26. Her Boyfriends Used Her
Denny Bruce, one of Cass’s good friends and a drummer with the band, The Mothers of Invention, expanded on Cass’s string of lovers. “There were a couple of good-looking guys that were schtupping Cass,” he recalled. But Bruce gave a more sinister reason for their interest in Cass. “They were basically there for her [substances]”.
And Cass had a lot of substances.
27. She Was Always High
Cass buried her woes with the Mamas & the Papas into her music—and a dangerous amount and array of substances. One publication described Cass’ and her bandmates’ shocking substance use: “Before they hit the big time, the group dropped acid, smoked dope, and drank. After they hit the big time, the group dropped acid, smoked dope, and drank”.
All of her substance use led to some wild behavior.
28. She Was In Big Trouble
In 1967, Cass traveled to London ahead of her bandmates for a scheduled performance. But, before long, she found herself on the wrong side of the law. The local London authorities detained Cass for having pilfered bed linens from the apartment she was staying in. There were rumors, however, that they really wanted her for something far more serious.
29.She Fell In With The Wrong Crowd
One of Cass’s many alleged lovers was a man named Pic Dawson. But she wasn’t the only one interested in Dawson. So were the local authorities. You see, in addition to possibly being Cass’s lover, he was also her supplier. The authorities in London wanted to use the accusations against Cass in order to get to Dawson.
She was in bigger trouble than she knew.
30. She Spent The Night Behind Bars
Cass spent a whole night behind bars in London, possibly facing serious charges. However, after she appeared before the West London magistrate, the authorities dropped the charges against her for lack of evidence. Nevertheless, the bad press forced the band to cancel their scheduled performance. Then Cass stunned everyone.
31. She Was A Bed Sheet Bandit
Down the road, Cass returned to London and made a stunning confession that left her fans laughing—and the authorities fuming. While playing at the London Palladium, Cass addressed the allegations of her past bed sheet banditry saying, “I liked 'em so I took 'em”. But her wild days with the Mamas & the Papas were coming to an abrupt end.
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32. She Was All About Business
With nothing but a broken heart and insulting lyrics to show for her time with the Mamas & the Papas, Cass thought about moving on. As John Phillips recalled, “Cass’s idea of show business was really show business. We just wanted to [mess] around, have a good time”. By 1968, however, the good times had come to an end.
Cass hoped even better things lay ahead.
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33. She Had A Las Vegas Residency
With the success of her solo recording of “Dream a Little Dream of Me," Cass left the Mamas & the Papas and struck out on her own. Shortly after the band’s breakup, she landed a major gig at Caesars Palace in Las Vegas. It was a three-week, six-figure deal that would have made Cass the breakout star from the broken-up band.
She went to extreme lengths to prepare for her solo spotlight.
34. She Dieted Too Hard
Now a solo act, Cass felt the pressure to slim down more intensely than ever before. To prepare for her big Las Vegas debut, she adopted a crazy crash diet. She fasted for four days a week for seven months and lost one third of her 300 pounds. Unfortunately for Cass, the consequences were painful.
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35. Her Diet Nearly Ended Her Life
Cass’s diet slimmed her down significantly but, in a cruel twist, it came at a terrible price: her health. In the weeks leading up to her first Las Vegas show, Cass developed “acute tonsillitis, hemorrhaging vocal cords, mononucleosis and a dangerous case of hepatitis” all thanks to her dangerous new eating habits. She was ill-prepared for what came next.
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36. Her Debut Was The Hottest Ticket In Town
Massive stars like Sammy Davis Jr, Jimi Hendrix, and Mia Farrow turned up in Las Vegas to watch Cass’s big debut. But, thanks to her health conditions prior to the show, she had barely even rehearsed a single lyric. However, when Cass finally took to the stage for her first performance, she left the audience gobsmacked.
37. She Embarrassed Herself
The star-studded audience eagerly awaited Cass’ debut as a solo artist. Nervously, Cass took to the stage…then fumbled her way through the performance. She was so weak from her illnesses that her voice was barely audible. After the concert ended, she came back on stage and pleaded, “This is the first night, and it will get better”.
She was horribly wrong.
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38. Her Fans Walked Out On Her
Cass’s contract stipulated that she would perform two shows a night. After a quick rest, she tried to salvage the show with her second performance but her voice only got worse—and the crowd only got less sympathetic. The disappointed audience “noisily” walked out and Caesars Palace had no choice but to cancel Cass’s contract.
Then they added insult to injury.
ABC, The Mama Cass Television Program (1969)
39. She Was Worse Than The Titanic Sinking
When the sun rose on her awful performances, the media was unforgiving. Newsweek compared Cass’s Vegas debut to the sinking of the Titanic. “Like some great ocean liner embarking on an ill-fated maiden voyage, Mama Cass slid down the waves and sank to the bottom”. Cass fell into a deep depression but, thankfully, she had one bright spot in her life.
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40. She Had A Delightful Daughter
Just before she signed her Las Vegas contract, Cass had given birth to a healthy baby girl, Owen. “She named me Owen because I was her 'own,'” Owen later recalled. Despite the troubles in her love life and career, Cass was obsessed with being a good mother. “She was responsible for one hundred percent of my welfare”.
Her obsessive mothering even led to a long-kept secret.
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41. She Kept A Dark Secret
Cass guarded her daughter fiercely, even firing nannies who grew too close. To protect her reputation and her child’s privacy, Cass kept the news out of the headlines. More importantly, when the media found out about her child, Cass staunchly refused to identify the child’s father. That didn’t stop the media from speculating wildly.
However, there were even darker rumors that followed Cass.
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42. She Was Friends With Charles Manson
Throughout her career, Cass hosted legendary Hollywood parties with all of the biggest stars. Not to mention, some terrible ones as well. Legend has it that Cass had hosted—on at least one occasion—the notorious and noxious cult leader Charles Manson and his “associates” at her house.
It’s not clear how close she was to Manson but she was close enough to make some people look at her differently.
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43. Her Friends Blamed Her For “Helter Skelter”
After Manson’s and his associates’ horrific and brutal massacre, John Phillips pointed the finger at Cass. He blamed her for having invited Manson and his band of ne'er-do-wells into their group. He even blamed Cass for the grizzly slaughter that ended Sharon Tate’s life.
Thankfully, the authorities didn’t agree with Phillips’ assessment.
44. She Wanted More Than Just Music
With her Las Vegas flop, Cass’s solo career stalled. But she spent the next few years making regular television appearances. She even had her own television variety specials, The Mama Cass Television Program and Don't Call Me Mama Anymore. In her heart, however, Cass longed for more than just a middling career. She wanted the one thing that had always eluded her: love.
When she least expected it, she found it.
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45. She Married Royalty
In 1971, Cass finally found someone to call her own. It’s not clear how she met Donald von Wiedenman, a journalist and heir to a Bavarian barony, but it must have been love at first sight—and divorce at second sight. Their 1971 marriage lasted about as long as a song. After just two months, they got divorced.
Sadly, things did not get better.
46. She Fainted Backstage
Cass Elliot continued her dangerous dieting habits—but, by 1974, this caught up with her. While waiting backstage at the The Johnny Carson Show, Cass unexpectedly collapsed. Medical staff rushed her to the hospital but she waved the incident away as mere exhaustion.
Then she went right back to her bad habits.
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47. She Went To Mick Jagger’s Birthday Party
Cass ignored the warning signs of her waning health. After her collapse at The Johnny Carson Show, she wrapped up two weeks of concerts at the London Palladium. Then, without taking so much as a cat nap, Cass kicked off her post-show celebrations with Mick Jagger’s 31st birthday party at his place in Chelsea.
That was just her first of many stops.
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48. She Was Having Trouble Breathing
Cass left Mick Jagger’s party and went to a brunch hosted by Georgia Brown in her honor. However, much to everyone’s dismay, Cass appeared unwell, “blowing her nose frequently, coughing and having trouble breathing”. Nevertheless, later that evening, she went to another party hosted by the American entertainment journalist Jack Martin.
Her appearance there, however, left everyone confused.
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49. She Looked Terrible
Wherever she went, Cass was always the life of the party. At Martin’s party, however, life appeared to have left her. Even though everyone commented that she seemed to be in good spirits, her sickly-looking appearance had everyone concerned. Cass, however, chalked it up to exhaustion (she hadn’t slept since Mick Jagger’s party) and decided to head home for the night.
It was, sadly, her final public appearance.
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50. She Took Her Final Rest
Cass returned home to an apartment (Flat 12, 9 Curzon Place) owned by Harry Nilsson in the affluent Mayfair neighborhood. However, when Cass failed to emerge from her room as the night of July 28 turned into the day of July 29, her secretary became suspicious. When he finally opened her bedroom door, he was left devastated.
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51. She Did Not Choke On A Ham Sandwich
Cass’s secretary Dot McLeod found her, deceased, in her bed of an apparent heart attack. But, predictably, the rumor mill concocted its own version of events. Before long, everyone was viciously reporting that Cass had choked while devouring a ham sandwich—an obvious smear against her long standing struggle with obesity.
An even wilder rumor suggested that she'd passed while giving birth to John Lennon's love child. But these weren't the only rumors to outlive her.
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52. Her Daughter Found Her Father
After her passing, Cass’s daughter, Owen, went to live with the singer’s younger sister. It wasn’t until years later, however, that Michelle Phillips, of all people, finally solved the mystery of Cass’s unknown lover and the father of her daughter. “I found your dad,” Phillips said to Owen. “Here's a plane ticket. Go meet him”.
53. She Was Always “California Dreamin’”
Cass had done a good job of protecting the identity of her daughter’s father—all of the rumors had been horribly wrong. The father of Cass’ daughter was guitarist Chuck Day, the second guitarist on her hit songs “Monday, Monday” and “California Dreamin’”.
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